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I want to be a source of support for those with chronic illnesses.

I have a congenital heart disease.

Diagnosis: Double outlet right ventricle

I was told that I would be in a vegetative state right after birth and was given a prognosis of limited life expectancy. They said I might not live until 20.

I was at rock bottom.

However, with the support of many people, I have managed to live until now.

I am currently 35 years old.

During my student days, I often felt down compared to others

and struggled with arrhythmia, unable to accept that I was disabled.

Whenever something happened, I would lash out at my parents, blaming it on my illness.

At the age of 15, I had a heart pacemaker implanted.

Since then, although I used to often be unable to move due to arrhythmia, the device has helped control it, making daily life easier.

Even after getting a job, I continued to have days where things didn't go well because of my illness.

One day, my boss at work laughed and said, "You look normal, but it's sad."

I felt very frustrated.

I was shocked to hear that just because I couldn't do more than others, I would be treated this way.

I wanted to show that even with disabilities, we can live happily

and I hoped that we could recognize each other and be a little more positive.

That's why I started this service.

I feel that people with disabilities are often looked at with the mindset that they can't do anything.

I hope this can be a place to rest the heart.

For those with chronic illnesses or those living with illness

who feel anxious every day thinking about the future,

who are concerned about how others perceive them,

or who feel lost about their own identity,

and so on.

After thinking a lot and worrying a lot,

before you feel like you can't go on anymore,

I created a service that makes you think, "Maybe I should talk a little."

I will listen to anything!

Please don't suffer alone.

Please share your painful and difficult feelings with me.

I, who have a chronic illness, will listen to you.

✥ Things you have given up on

✥ At work, someone said this to me—what do you think?

✥ I can't talk to my parents about it.

✥ I want to do this in the future

✥ I have goals, but I can't take the first step

✥ I want someone to push me forward

✥ Before consulting, I want to organize my feelings

✥ Complaints

✥ Things I can't tell my family

✥ The pain and frustration of having a chronic illness.

✥ Is this just me? Is it just me?

✥ I can't be positive.

✥ I have no motivation.

✥ Anything is fine.

I will listen and be there for you.

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私は、先天性の心臓病を持っています。病名、両大血管右室起始症産まれてすぐに植物人間になると言われ、余命宣告をされました。20歳まで生きられるかわからないと。どん底でした。しかし、沢山の人たちに支えて頂き、今まで生きてこれました私は、現在35歳です。学生の頃は、人と比べて落ち込んだり不整脈に悩まされたり、自分が障害者と言うことが受け入れられませんでした。なにかあるたびに病気のせいだ‥と親に当たり散らす始末 15歳の時に心臓ペースメーカーを入れました。それからは、今まで不整脈で動けなくなることが多かったはずが、機械で不整脈を抑えてくれるので、日常生活が楽になりました。就職をしても、病気を理由にうまくいかない日々が続きました。　ある日職場の上司に見た目普通なのに可哀想だな。と笑われました。　すごく悔しかったです。できないことが、人より多いだけでこんな言われ方をするのか‥と愕然としました。そして、障害を持っていても、笑って過ごしたお互いを認め合い、少しでも前向きになって欲しいと思いこのサービスを始めました。障害をもっていると、どーせできないだろ‥と言う目で見られることが、多い気がしますそこで、心を休める場所になればいいなと思います。持病を持っている方や闘病生活をされている方毎日、不安‥この先を考えると‥ 周りの目線が気になる‥ 自分在り方がわからなくなってきた‥ などなどたくさん考えて、たくさん悩んで‥ もうダメ‥と思ってしまうその前に少し話してみようかな。と思って頂けるようなサービスを作りました。なんでも話聞きます！受け止めます！もう悩まないで。辛くて苦しい気持ちお聞かせください。持病を持った僕がお話をうかがわせて頂きます。 ★諦めてしまったこと ★職場で、こう言われた‥どう思う？ ★親に相談できない。 ★今後、こうしていきたい ★目標は、あるのに一歩が踏み出せない ★背中を押して欲しい ★相談ごとをする前に気持ちの整理をしたが ★愚痴 ★家族にいえないこと ★持病を持っている苦しみやもどかしさ。 ★これって俺だけ？私だけ？ ★前向きになれない。 ★やる気がでない。 ★なんでも構いません。心に寄り添いお話し聞きます。